O Lord and Master of my life! Take from me the spirit of sloth, faint-heartedness, lust of power, and idle talk. But give rather the spirit of chastity, humility, patience, and love to thy servant. Yea, O Lord and King! Grant me to see my own errors and not to judge my brother; For Thou art blessed unto ages of ages.



Amen



Monday, January 31, 2011

On the feast of St. John Bosco

"When... stubbornness takes hold of one’s mind, how can sanctity ever flourish? Where humble obedience reigns, grace will triumph."- Don Bosco


St. John Bosco is one of those saints that attracts the attention of young boys and girls.  What I find most appealing about him is how his life is like that of many young people today.  Actually, we can be talking about the very same issues St. John Bosco saw and wrote about within the faces of our own youth today.

His approach was cleverly constructed by God...being able to touch and relate to a young boy for instance takes a gift.  Obviously St. John Bosco was charismatic, playful, intelligent but he used those gifts, bestowed by God to reach a section of our population so easily dismissed.  He believed that showing love to the boys in his care would be enough to touch their souls.  That giving a combination of knowledge, play, and guidance could, by the grace of God, turn a lost youth around.  He taught by religion, reason and kindness!

I spent quite a few years with the youth just like Father John's.  They were/are the abandoned and forgotten juveniles of the state system, either under the direct care of the foster care program or the probation system.  My focus was working with the girls more so than the boys.  These girls always tried to be so strong during the day, very tough to deal with.  But, at night all those walls came crumbling down. 

They would often cry themselves to sleep, that is when they slept.  But what I found during these nightly episodes was that they craved protection and guidance.  They wanted discipline and structure.  They yearned for knowledge, I mean they fought against it at first, but once the wall came down a bit they were wide eyed and enthusiastic for truth.  I wish I would have known more about St. John Bosco then, asking for his intercessions for these children.  Because they were children.  Perhaps a bit damaged, but they were created by God just as I was and my children. 

And St. John Bosco knew that too.


I'm no longer in that particular field, I do miss it, but I was given another job. To raise my own children; giving them the same education, direction, and love that St. John Bosco is remembered for.  I think of the kids I met and the many I got to know so well.  I pray for them.  Today, I'll be asking for St. John Bosco's intersessions for them too.

(Father John Bosco hearing the confessions of his boys)

I hope you all have (are having) a wonderful Monday!

Sites worth a click:

"it is interesting to observe how St. John Bosco was always aware of the problems of his times. He was not a saint living in the clouds, as sentimental hagiographies depict many saints. St. John Bosco knew the problems of his time and combated the enemies of the Church as they actually were."
~ source here

A post worth reading by Annie of Under Her Starry Mantle 

A biography of St. John Bosco here at ETWN and here

A recipe for tea here with Charlotte

A dinner plan: Catholic Cuisine


A prayer for my girls...where ever they may be now and for all the youth we know

O glorious Saint John Bosco,
who in order to lead young people to the feet of the divine Master
and to mould them in the light of faith
and Christian morality didst heroically sacrifice thyself
to the very end of thy life
and didst set up a proper religious Institute destined to endure
and to bring to the farthest boundaries of the earth thy glorious work,
obtain also for us from Our Lord a holy love for young people
who are exposed to so many seductions
in order that we may generously spend ourselves in supporting them
against the snares of the devil,
in keeping them safe from the dangers of the world,
and in guiding them,
pure and holy,
in the path that leads to God.

Amen. 

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Wordless Wednesdays

almost wordless
I just wanted to remember this
now that we are in the midst of a warm trend
now that as I get closer to a goal...
things seems to get harder
the attacks are on
and I just want to be reminded of the
child
the one who puts up her feet
and lets go

Friday, January 21, 2011

*This Moment*

{this moment} - A Friday ritual.  Photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week.  A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. If you're inspired to do the same, visit Soulemama to leave a link to your 'moment' in the comments for all to find and see.


Monday, January 17, 2011

There is a giveaway

....happening right now.

Go check it out, Small Things, Ginny, has graciously offered to giveaway one of a cute Dolly Necklace.  I'd post a picture but they belong to Ginny....so go on over there and enter the giveaway.

The dolls are so so cute.  I know my two little ones would love one.

Ginny was extra nice to also offer a tutorial for the pouches the dolls sleep in.  She has given very detail and easy instructions for making one or more of them for ourselves.  It looks like a fun project for those sewing/crafty mommas; and any one else handy with a sewing machine.  In fact, it looks like an easy enough project for the sewing novices too...that would be me by-the-way :)

Good luck!

Friday, January 14, 2011

Ringing in the New Year...

...with snow and family

We had the pleasure of spending New Year's Eve with one of my brothers and his family.  This is the first time in years that we've been able to manage celebrating together.


My brother, Leo, is a typical younger brother (he's the one in the red jacket...just look at his smirk...still my little brother).  As kids he would tease his big sisters, mess with our dolls, had our mother wrapped around his little finger....the kid could do NO wrong in her eyes. 
It's actually still kind of like that, LOL :)

But look at him now?
A family man

He's a pretty great brother.  One of the kindest men I know; truly has a giving heart.  Not perfect mind you, I still have to act like his big sis here, but he is pretty close to the best kind of brother anyone could want. 

The weather up in the mountains was perfect.  Just enough warmth to make it comfortable and plenty of snow for winter fun!

We went sledding


gathered icicles
that later had to be confiscated when they were turned into swords

tossing of snow

some were not as happy
about that snow in her jacket

Hubbie thought Max would make a better snow angel
if he tossed him into a pile of undisturbed snow

Max didn't think so...

We ate, drank, played games and danced a bit too
by the time midnight came around everyone but Rose and Princess were awake
I mean 'really' awake

The next day was nice and mellow

but nothing stops this family from
snowboarding

This is by far some of the best moments of the vacation


It was a great way to celebrate a brand new start
and we were blessed to have spent it with family

I am truly grateful for the memories made here

Every good gift comes from the Father of light.
May He grant you His grace and every blessing,
and keep you safe throughout the coming year.

R. Amen!

May He grant you unwavering faith,
constant hope, and love that endures to the end.

R. Amen!

May He order your days and work in His peace,
hear your every prayer,
and lead you to everlasting life and joy.

R. Amen!

May almighty God bless you,
the Father, and the Son, + and the Holy Spirit.

R. Amen!

*this moment*

{this moment} - A Friday ritual.  Photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week.  A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. If you're inspired to do the same, visit Soulemama to leave a link to your 'moment' in the comments for all to find and see.

 

because one day she will no longer be making mud cakes for me


Thursday, January 13, 2011

How goes it?

I am overhauling lesson plans, beginning to look into Lucy's 9th grade year (what!), and trying to keep with the rhythm of our home that seems to have fallen from Heaven. 

It's been a really good school week. 

It's been a great prayer week. 

And all I did was; do less.

Could it be that simple?

Yep, I'm full proof of it.  With the exception of work that is being done on some property and a very sick relative in the hospital; we have been on a nice simpler roll. 

Now I need to figure out how to keep this nice turn of events with 3 kids in weekly orchestra and all kids starting baseball and softball two weeks from now.....

Oh dear!

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Looking for a husband...already?

(Princess and I having an afternoon to ourselves)

Princess:  Momma, am I going to be married when I'm all grown up and be an adult?

Me:  Well, maybe...we'll have to wait and see when you grow up.

(Thinks for a bit)
Princess:  Yes, I'm going to be married...but who am I going to marry?  Can I marry Papi?

Me:  No mija, Papi married me a very long time ago.  He's my husband and can't be yours...he is your Papi.

Princess:  Well then who am I going to marry?

(thinks for a bit then says....)

Princess:  I know!  I will marry that boy from church...he's cute and I already see him at church!  I already know him!

(So now I have to add that boy from church to my prayers...a certain 4 year old has him marked for a spouse =) and I have no clue who she is refering too)

Friday, January 7, 2011

*this moment*

{this moment}
- A Friday ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.

Those whose moments have stopped time...for a little while anyway


Visit SouleMama for links to more memories.
If you're inspired to do the same, leave a link to your 'moment' in the comments for all to find and see.

Thursday, January 6, 2011

HOME

This is where I am.  After a few years of saying it, I think I've arrived. 

I'm HOME. 

I mean this figuratively and physically too.  We've been away a lot over the last month.  There are several things I've missed for the lack of just being around.  A cookie exchange link up came and went...I love cookie exchanges and I missed it. 

But that's okay.

I was away spending time with family and getting cozy next to fires. 

What I really mean by being HOME is that I feel more focused in my role as wife and mother.  It isn't always a pretty site.  No, but the effort to be a peace in my HOME is a constant now.

I wish I could say that my prayer life is perfect, that the kids lesson plans are updated, that each child is receiving exactly what they need at the moment they need it.  I wish I could say that my house is as clean as I'd like it to be or that the clutter I tried to get rid of last year has stayed gone. 

Nope.  I can't say any of those things.

But, I can say that I look at each day with new eyes.  I try to meet the needs of both husband and children on an hourly basis.  I carve out prayer time, not always daily but I'm getting there.  I am slowly getting to that clutter. 

Yes!  I am deconstructing my HOME.  Every inch of it.  It was the reason why we took all of Advent off from regular school work.  My family needed time to just be still.  To cook and read together.  Watch silly movies, walk in the rain, visit lots of family....to breath.

Now I'm getting to the physical needs of my HOME.  More on that later...

During all this there is the daily-hourly talks with Jesus.  I am more grateful to God for His abundance love for me and what He has put forth in my life.  I see Him in my children.  I see Him in the love between my husband and I.  I can see His hand on even the current struggles...here prayers are needed.

HOME is my word for 2011.

HOME is my focus.

Monday, December 27, 2010

And a very Merry Christmas to all

Christmas Eve

There can be a whirlwind of events beginning the morning of Christmas Eve and running strong until December 26th.  Baking, visiting, wrapping and such have a way of cluttering the time.  Thus, precious moments can be lost if one isn't careful. 

I didn't want the 'noise' to clutter our time.  So, we took it slow and easy. 

No fuss
No stress
No worries
(or so we tried)

Christmas Eve we would be rejoicing at the birth and coming of Our Lord Jesus
We would be singing under the grace that He has come to save us from ourselves
We would be simple in our own family's need to be still;
reflecting in various ways on how how He has come to one day
die for US

We gave back a little to neighbors, bearing kitchen goodies and Christmas carols.  Wishing them a blessed Christmas season

We had a lovely dinner
I didn't take any pictures during this time, I think I was just in the moment.  It was so pretty with candles and flowers everywhere. 
I just kept taking it all in :)

Then the time came to place Baby Jesus in his manger
Princess was given the special 'job' and didn't let anyone forget it

Then it was off to see Lucy, her cousins, and a few other talented youth sing Christmas carols for Fr. S right before the midnight Mass was to begin

We walked into our parish
It was still, the manger illuminated by lights drew every one's attention

The choir began to sing
and I heard the angels singing in Glory to God 
for He has come down to be among us

We didn't get to stay for the midnight Mass
but instead returned the following morning to celebrate
still all beautiful
still so magical

Christmas has begun

The Word was made flesh, alleluia, alleluia!
And dwelt among us, alleluia, alleluia!

Thursday, December 23, 2010

A Cartoon's Lesson on Christmas

A more simpler version, and coming from a secular source, the message is clear. 

A king is born unto us 
Come to save us, O Lord our God

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Kid Bits

I

Princess:  "Momma when I was a baby, where was I"?

Me:  "In my tummy until you came out".

Princess:  "Oh I was in Mexico".

~ ~ ~ ~

II

The scene:
We had an evening of watching some ice skating competition.  Papi, Princess, and I were in the room. 

Princess:  "Oh when I grow up into an adult can I do that"?

Papi:  "Sure you can"

Princess:  "Can you hold my hand so I don't fall down"?

The smiling, Papi:  "Yes, I'll hold you so you won't fall".

Princess:  "Oh good... and you'll take me"!

Princess:  "Um on second thought I don't need you to take me....can I have a car"?

Papi puts his head down in dismay as he learns how costly our 4 year old is going to be on our wallets.  What four year old asks for a car?  I really wish I had a picture to document the serious look on her face....

Priceless!

Monday, December 20, 2010

My Daybook ~ for reflecting purposes

outside my window...

It's finally looking more like winter.  Our 80 degree weather has given into rain, storms, and the need for a sweater.  Hurray!!!

I am thinking...

...how incomplete I feel.  Why do I start off with energy as we get into Advent only to sloth off as we near the very thing we are preparing for. 

...how today I am feeling 'off'.  Off my game, Off my rocker perhaps.  Thinking of what I need to change to get back on focus.  Focusing on the time with my brood and allowing Jesus to take control...

...how I haven't done what was asked of me yet.

From the lessons plans...

We've taken Advent off from history and even math.  I needed the down time.  There is a lot of reading going on though, playing games, chores....knowing how to wash dishes correctly is a needed skill.

From the kitchen...

Currently I see the evidence of cookies and treats that are waiting to be mixed into a bowl.  I think tomorrow shall begin our baking marathon...not today.

I am wearing...

Jeans and a sweater.  I'm going to venture into the rain for a few last minute errands; for those handmade gifts my kids are supposed to be finishing. 

If I recall correctly it was their idea to do these added crafts.  Yet, the responsibility of completing them seems to have fallen to me.  Now, how did I allow that to happen?

I am creating...

... these little cuties
(idea from here)

for our tree.  They are taking longer than I expected to complete.  There are a few other crafts I'm in the middle of finishing.  Unfortunately, I have a broken needle w/o any replacements in the house to deal with.  Thus the added errand to Jo Ann's (or my SIL's since she just told me she has plenty to spare).

...a shopping/menu list for Christmas Eve

...a present for a new Godchild

I am reading...

... lots of picture books, the ending to The Neverending Story (I love the play in words from this book), and little tid bits of this and that.

I am hoping...

...to stay centered. 

...to keeping things simple and I have so I'm not sure why I feel so "off".  Well perhaps I do know...must get to Holy Hour....must....must.

I am hearing...

...Christmas music and the chattering of little girls who just got out of bath.

Around the house...

...well honestly I may need a cleaning lady soon.  There seems to be 'stuff' in every corner...yikes how does that happen?  Once I return, we are going to dive into our bi-monthly duty of downsizing and get rid of some of this stuff. 

I am going...

...to grab some needles, some craft sticks, and give myself a needed prayer time.

One of my favorite things....

...a little red headed girl who calls out for her 'mommy' in the most beautiful way.

...family time with the extended family

...the understanding and support between mothers

...the soft hand of my husband when he understands, without being told a thing!!!

I am praying for...

...a friend's son (and for her too!)

...lost loved ones

...a certain intention-flaw-seemingly never ending pain that I believe is the root to my uneasiness

A few plans for the rest of the week...

...baking, stitching, sewing, cooking, wrapping

...most importantly there is a date to be with Jesus prior to Christmas and confession tonight

A picture thought...

the silliness of these two...one must be ready for them, thus the cup of coffee at my side :)

A blessed last week of Advent to you and yours!

Friday, December 17, 2010

*This Moment *

{this moment} - A Friday ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.
Visit SouleMama for links to

those whose moments have stopped time...for a little while anyway
 

A a very blessed Advent and Christmas!!!

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