O Lord and Master of my life! Take from me the spirit of sloth, faint-heartedness, lust of power, and idle talk. But give rather the spirit of chastity, humility, patience, and love to thy servant. Yea, O Lord and King! Grant me to see my own errors and not to judge my brother; For Thou art blessed unto ages of ages.



Amen



Friday, August 26, 2011

{pretty, happy, funny,real}

...running a bit late on this one

~ Capturing the context of contentment in everyday life ~
Every Thursday Friday, at Like Mother, Like Daughter!

{pretty}


These beauties belong to a very dear baby.  Her lovely Mama was telling me how she just had washed her first cloths diapers and was hanging them on her clothes line.  I told her she should take a picture because I thought it sounded so cool.  Here is that shot.

Originally, I thought of putting this shot under real.  But the more I looked at it, the more I liked it under pretty.  Isn't lovely? 
Clean baby "diapers in the wind".
{happy}


Lucy turned 14!
Yep she was, and is, so happy.
{funny}


What is it with kids and bugs?
Rose found this HUGE Horntail in our tomato plant.  I think I yelled out because she came running and screaming, "momma, momma look what I found".  She just shoved this green thing in my face....they (the rest of my kids and that of my comarde's) all thought my reaction was funny...;-)

My comarde is a science teacher.  Thus, we all spent a good amount of time looking and touching the Horntail, naming it and finding another home for it other than on my tomatoes.  Personally I thought it should have been given to the hens. 
I was out voted.
{real}

I'm hardly in any of the photos with the kids.  Not because I'm shy or anything but it's mostly me behind the camera.  Hubby shot this from his seat at the beach and I think it's a great shot.  All of us, hanging out at the beach ,the Friday before school starts, on our Lucy's 14th birthday...

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

First Day of School ~

Today begins the first day of our 2011-2012 school year!
There are changes in grades, expectations, new beginnings leading to a special accomplishment for one & a the start of a formal education for another.

Dear Sweet Jesus,
Bless our endeavors today, especially that of my own words and actions; as we strive to learn, hope to inspire and do this all for your Glory.

Happy schooling everyone!

Now I'm off to.... teach something ;-)

Direct, we beg you, O Lord, our actions by your holy inspirations, and grant that we may carry them out with your gracious assistance, that every prayer and work of ours may begin always with you, and through you be happily ended.
Amen

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

To Charter or Not ;-)

A blogging friend posted a question regarding the use of charter schools for the home schooling family.  Since our family began this adventure of home educating ten years ago...yikes it's been ten years already?  Alrighty then, since we ventured onto this path I've tried and found endless methods, groups, funded (not funded) ways to 'homeschool' and the ways to pay for it. 

Charter schools were one of them.  I currently have 2 of my children enrolled in a state funded charter school for home schooling families.  We actually just pulled out our 9th grader from the school and going completely independent (filing under a R4 umbrella) for high school.  I'll answer the why later.  But we did keep the 5th and 2nd grader in the school. 

The charter school we belong to is well established in our state of California.  They serve a wide range of districts and offer an enticing list of product and service vendors.  Since they've been around for a number of years their 'virtual library' holds a great deal of materials.  This alone cuts down on the actual amount a family needs to take from their semester allowances.  A HUGE help!!!

Though there are great reasons to enroll in a state funded charter, there are challenges that can and do detour families.  Especially seasoned-veteran home educators.  So I'll list what I have found, what has worked and not worked for us, and why we pulled out Lucy from the school.  This is solely based on my personal experience and may or man not reflect what others might be experiencing.  Remember these are just my little 2 cents;-)

The benefits:
#1 on everyone list is the funds.
Charter schools provide an allowance for each enrolled student.  Depending on the state and/or school, the funds can be distributed by the school year, quarterly or like in our case by semester.  The amount can vary and is subjected to state budget cuts.  Every year we hear the same word of caution regarding our funding.  "This could be cut next semester so spend wisely", I've yet to see a lowered amount in our funds.  In fact our school has a very generous allowance.  This can pose challenges though as you'll read later on.

Fact is there is NO WAY our family could have afforded many of the curriculum and services the funding has provided for!  NO WAY!  The funds provided are to be used for educational services and materials. This includes:
tutoring
curriculum (both consumable and non, prepackaged or a single text)
dance lessons
music lessons
sports (fencing, karate, gymnastics)
outside educational classes (science, math, reading and co-op classes like this one)
computers
printers
office supplies (ink, pencils, art supplies)
instruments
school equipment (desks or white boards)
* important note here: all non consumable products like microscopes, computers and curriculum is bought by the parent/teacher but is ultimately property of the school.  Thus, once the item(s) is used and completed or the family dis enrolls; all those items must be returned to the charter.  At least that is the case with ours.

It's a huge list.  And if your child wants to try their hand in something that isn't on the vendor list, the parent then simple invites that vendor to join the list.  This would involve some paperwork on their part, showing proof of insurance and licenses are an example.

Our family could not have afforded the piano, fencing, guitar, private tutoring and ballet for our 4 kids.  So for this we are so very grateful to the school!

#2
Lending library
From what I've seen, most charter schools have some form of a library system.  Many of the items come from families who have returned unused curriculum, instruments and such.  The school also uses all unused IF funds to purchase hot items like math curriculums.  This is where I've saved tons of our IFs (instructional funding) and why I've been able to allocate those funds to serve our family better.  Our charter school has been around a while so their library is well stocked.  I use it for my math books; Saxon, Singapore, Teaching Textbooks, Chalk Dust...you name it and it's probably at the library waiting to be checked out.  I have been able to check out a great microscope for several months, a Rosetta Stone Spanish program for the entire year, lots of supplemental readings.  Again the list is long but this can range from charter to charter.  It's definitely a plus though for families on a budget. 

Important to note too.  If, like in math, you hear of a new product, like when Teaching Textbooks first became popular, the school library provided me with a hands on look of the product.  I'm a touch and feel kind of buyer.  I like to see the book open it and really LOOK at it to see if it fits our family, or a particular child.  This is a definate plus for the library of a charter.

#3
The ES
Our Educational Specialists is fabulous. She is a veteran home educator herself and I've been able to use her skills and experience to help instructing Max.  She's become a close friend and (don't tell) but we spend most of our meetings chatting. 

The Educational Specialists (ES) role is to support the parent.  This can vary with charters as well though.  Our charter has a very strict policy for the ES.  Per their policy the ES oversees what is being taught and how the child is moving along.  We meet about every 20 days, here at our home, where the ES is supposed to request to see all the work completed for that period of time and discuss any issues or concerns.  For me, this is both a positive and negative element to working with a charter.  The ES is supposed to make sure the learning is getting done and being completed at a satisfactory level.  We turn in a sample of work from each major subject area: Math, Science, Language Arts etc.  About 7 pages is what is comes out to.  These samples go into that child's portfolio at the main office. 

Remember this is a state funded charter.  So they have to answer to the state, which includes yearly audits at their main office.  So yes, they can be strict.  An ES can be straight by the book or can get to know their families and know by the character and examples of the work that yes indeed there is lots of learning happening.

The above 3 areas and the fact the school is accredited, plan field trips, organize activities like spelling bees, hold transcripts make it a great choice for families.  Especially new families to home schooling.

But perhaps you've already seen a glimpse of the concerns one may have.  Especially when you've been at this for a while.

My Concerns:
#1
The Funding
How can funding be a positive and a concern?  Have you ever been giving about $1000 (give or take $100 or 2) for each child to use in one school year?  We are talking about $2-3,000.00 for the year in school related stuff

Our charter has a very generous allowance...we are truly blessed here.  But there are only so many outside classes & activities you can have a child in.  Especially when you have more than one child and their interests can range dramatically.  We don't learn the best being in a car for half a day twice or more a week.  It just disrupts our family time too much.

And if you utilize the lending library, the hope then is to have the funds for those activities and use less on actual curriculum.  We home schoolers are known for being curriculum junkies.  Buying that cool chemistry kit in the very hope to using it at some point...and never do because it's somewhere in the closet behind that other rock collection kit from last semester.  Sound familiar?

Well that was the case in my home until I had a revelation of sorts.  My children learned best when the subject matter was kept simple and organized.  If something interested them, being able to see and USE the items they needed quickly eliminated the frustration of searching and becoming side tracked.  I got rid of tons of 'stuff' and now give back all my unused IF to the school.  They in turn purchase items that future families can use for the library and this would include mine.  I made a promise to myself, and to my Hubbie, not to be a home school hoarder.  Wish me luck :-)

#2
State Testing
I personally do not put any importance to these test.  I don't see the benefits whether in a public school setting or in a home schooled setting.  But again, charters are funded by the state and are mandated to report the 'progress' of their students.  I'll leave it at that.

#3
Those Learning Record meetings
Without trying to step on any toes here, this is what I see and struggle with the most.  I teach in accordance to how my children learn, take their interest into account and do not follow state standards; at least not in detail.  I also have quite a few (well more than a few) items that come from a very Catholic perspective.  Um, Catholic textbooks, materials and state funded schools do not play nice together in my state.  So though I've been able to use what I want, I've had to be very creative in what I can show our ES and what can go into their portfolio for the school.  This has been the hardest part of being a part of a charter.  I'm fortunate in that our ES is a Christan and we share the same views on things.  So she works with me.  God bless her!

There is some logging down of the kid's daily learning activity.  A single page and easily filled out.  This year the charter has changed those learning record meetings to be more of a planning meeting.  So instead of the ES noting what has been completed, she'll be going over what the parent/teacher has planned to go over for the following 20 days or so.  We'll see how this all develops.  Personally at the point of where I am in teaching my children & the use of funds vs these meetings and overseeing by the state is no longer a balance.  We are slowly leaving the charter behind and hope in God that He'll provide what is needed.  I'm sure it'll all work out.

So that's it.  I absolutely feel that charters are a needed source of support for home schooling families.    It's an important tool, especially for those on a budget or the newbies ;-).  We need plenty of options in home schooling.  In an age where parents are loosing more of our rights to teach and instill morals into our children; where we do not have a say in the public sector of what is taught.  Speaking directly about our public school system in California.  Did you see Gov. Brown's recent signing of this bill, just as one horrible example.  So anything that gives families better choices is a good thing in my book.

Yep, we are slowly leaving the charter school as a family and going completely independent for Lucy.  There was no way I could have kept Lucy in the charter for high school.  Their requirements are too boxed in and inflexible for the growing mind of a teenager.  She needs to have high school be a period of guided exploration.  So we are on our own with her and Princess.  Kindergarten isn't mandatory and she'll be loving the Alphabet Path from Elizabeth's suggestions and Jessica's inspirations.

I hope this has helped some know a bit from the inside of a charter.  Again these are just my own observations and I'm sure others will differ.  Either way, I've offered my little tid bits with love.

God bless which ever way you opt to teach! 

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Learning Year beginnings :: Part I

The new learning year is upon on, yet again!  How does that happen?  One minute I'm finishing up the folders, gathering grades, cleaning out the books, looking forward to camping, fun, and relaxation then...
BAM
it's
home school conferences
daily scans through CathSwap,
new files,
new books,
anticipated visits from the brown truck,
new lessons being planned;
it's
September
and
the first day of school is just around the corner....
again!

But I love it.
I love new notebooks and the ideas of a fresh start.

This year I have 4 kiddos getting into the 'learning' thing.
A freshman in high school
(did you hear me gulp?)
A 5th grader
A 2nd grader
and the
kindergartner

It's a lovely year planned for us
(we hope)
yet we expect the unexpected, the forks in the road, the hills and mountains that will undoubtedly need to be climbed.

And here it is.
Our 2011-2012 year at a glance.

Did I mention there is a 9th grader lurking in my house?  I've been reading and searching the many ways I can make high school work for Lucy. From the organized and packaged plans of Seton or MODG, CHC's version of a High School of Your Dreams, running with a state run program or the on your own paths of the many unschoolers; the list is endless. 
But, after weeks of this, our plan developed. It's a mix bag of stuff really.  A bit from Seton, tips from 4real learning forums, points from CHC's high school and Charlotte Mason's philosophy of what learning should look like.

Anyhow, Lucy took full part in this too. Adding her input and suggestions for readings.  She wants to consider her options after high school and her terms plans will reflect that.  She also has a love for the viola and is currently playing and mastering the instrument with an orchestra.  Thus, she added this 'extra focus' in her planning. 

She is going to be one busy girl.
But isn't this what high school should be like?  A period of time to test the waters.  Where will her interest finally lead her too?  Only God knows, and I bet He's nudging her bit by bit here.


~ For Lucy:: The Beginning ~

Grammar: 

Winston Grammar (1 year)
Readings from Eats, Shoots & Leaves

Copy work:

Calligraphy
Poetry selections

Composition:

Jensen's Format Writing
Entries into her own journal
Credit for projects she has set up for journalism

Literature (for the year):

The Rose Round by Merioil Trevor
To Kill a Mockingbird

Shakespeare Studies:

I. Romeo & Juliet
II. Gentleman of Vienna
III. Julius Cesar

Math

Algebra I
(2 days a week class taken outside of the home for this one)
Assorted reading: Algebra Unplugged by Jim Loats.  This looks interesting so we'll see how it goes. 

History

RC History Vol 2
Text: Land to the Nations

Geography

loosely following MODG syllabus for 9th grade

Science

Assorted readings: 

Journalism

I.  Our Community report

Fine Arts & Logic

Viola with Kadima Conservatory

Art:: Home School in the wood's Studying the greats
I. Iconography, Monet, Raphael, Renoir

Music Study:: The Great Composers
I. Georgian Chants, Guido of Arezzo, Hildegard of Bingen

Logic::

Foreign Language

Rosetta Stone's Spanish level 1
practice and speaking with me

Religion

- The Sacrament of Confirmation
(either CHC's or Seton's...haven't decided yet)
- Baltimore Catechism No. 3
- weekly formation classes with our parish followed by benediction
- Bi-weekly CAST meetings
(a friend host these apologetics classes for the youth of our community...very well done)
I. Book of Virtues
II. How to Become a Saint

At a glance this looks like a lot.  But Lucy is a strong reader and can handle this load.  Keeping that in mind, this is set up to fit her and the year at a glance we hope to complete.

I don't know how to link to my pdf file....something else to learn.

5th grade is next

Sunday, July 31, 2011

Prayer Request

Dear friends,

We belong to a wonderful community of thoughtful, faith filled families.  On Friday one member of this extended family was seriously injured. 


David Santos was in a motorcycle accident Friday, July 29th. He is in ICU with a broken collar bone in 4 places and they are monitoring blood on the brain with ct scans. Surgery is planned for Monday, as long as he is stable, to mend the broken collar bone.  Dave has a preexisting condition that has greatly compromised his immune system thus, the concern for his well being is great.
 
Dave is a lovely, GIVING, father and husband. 
Personally, I can't speak enough of this family; their gentle (yet lively) spirit is addictive.
 
Our group is assembling a spiritual bouquet
and
I'm posting this request here.
If you are so able to offer some of your prayers for
Dave's healing and quick recovery
we would all be greatly appreciative.
 
Please either email me your offers or place them in the comment section
Many thanks!
 
"as you help us with prayers so that thanks may be given by many on our behalf for the gift granted us through the prayers of many."
2 Corinthians 1:11

UPDATE:
The bleeding on the brain has stopped.   Praise be to God!  Surgery is scheduled for this very evening, Tuesday @ 6pm, to repair the broken collarbone. He is in pain but in great spirits.  His immunity system is hanging in there and all looks very good right now.
Thank you for the prayers that have come in.  Your names were included with the bouquet this morning.
The family was very touched!

Our family is offering a rosary for all the famiies and their intentions.  A returned gift of prayer for your kindness.

God bless and thanks again!

Saturday, July 30, 2011

Dear little blog,

I haven't meant to neglect this space. 
But as always this time of year is just so super busy!
There are a few post in the making,
mostly about where I've been keeping myself.
But
I promise to be back soon.
I'll spend some time
putting several events
into words.
Blog about
planning the school year for my first 9th grader
and her siblings
planning for that major trip Hubby and I are taking
the growing of our summer crop
the down time forced upon us that started as a sad thing
and
quickly became a blessing

Oh, I have lots to say
:-)

My thoughts do wander off to think of how life is going for the many bloggers I've grown to admire and love

Until the time allows for me to return,
May God fill your days with Peace!

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Overheard

Right after our bedtime prayers:

Rose:  "Dear God, please give our family another baby.  We really would like a baby brother.  Okay God?  I'll give you ten minutes to think about it."

According to Grandpa, God really listens to our Rose.  She's been asking Him to take care of her Grandpa since he became sick.  And with the great news on Monday...Grandpa has already called his 9th grandchild to thank her for her conversations with God. 

She's told me several times, "Momma, did you know that if you stay really quiet you can hear God?"  This is a friendship and love, that I pray, she'll nurture forever.

Monday, July 11, 2011

My Daybook:: July 11th

Outside my window...there's a bit of cloud cover.  And luckily for me (and Hubby) it's supposed to be a nice 85 degrees today.  Kids are already outside, sitting around the table chatting it up.

I am listening too...some conservative radio talk show...it's all about budget, debt, budget and debts...I think I'll be hitting the mute button soon.  I can only bare to hear the woes of the government for so long.  Mute is ON and now I can hear my kids praying the Hail Mary outside...I wonder why but how cool! 

I am wearing...blue workout pants, a green t-shirt and by trusty chanclas (flip flops).

I am thinking...about so so many things. 

~ Worrying over Princess's rash that has turned out to be a contagious virus.  She's been around lots and lots of children lately :-( and I'm thinking about how many children could have been infected.

~ About Lucy at camp.  This is our yearly Big Bear week along with many great families.  Our girls have attended a "Girls Camp" with the Sacred Heart Sisters in Big Bear for several years now.  The rest of the families take the opportunity of being up in BB to stay the week and hang out.  It's a period of time that we all look forward to.  But because of the previous comment we had to cancel. 

~ Thinking that I really need to get to that garage!

I am hoping...that we hear some good news today.  That Lucy is having a wonderful time among the pines and friends.  That a sweet little girl didn't catch my Princess's bumps.

UPDATE:::
By the grace of God the cancer has reduced enough to allow my FIL time to recover from the chemo AND do some traveling.  Something he has wanted to do since before his dx.  His numbers are all way down and the tumors have reduced significantly!!  We are all very grateful that his time with us has been extended.  And pray that God will continue to heal him and that we all continue to accept His will.
I am praying...for my FIL.  He is getting his test results from last week's CAT Scan.  Please God shrink those tumors and give us strength to accept your will.

For many babies that will be making their grand 'entrance' very soon.

For Lucy and her cousins at camp.

For healing of families and hearts.

For two very special people that are always in my prayers and daily thoughts!

I am grateful...for the sweet smiles of a little red head and her huggy nature!  For my husband who risks his life everyday at work to keep me home with our babies.  For friends and their kindness.

From the kitchen...it's ground beef and spaghetti tonight.  My mom's recipe.  Simple and good.

From the school room...the new veggies sprouting up and the worm box are keeping Max quite busy.  He's constantly outside looking under leaves and rocks. 

The home school conferences are over, our school room is a wreck and my email inbox comprises mostly of CathSwap updates.  Since I'm home this week, my goal is to organize that area and get a clearer view of what our next school year is going to look like.

Presently the ideas are still in my head.  I have science, math, and history down.  I just need to put some order into it.

Can you believe I have a 9th grader now!!! YIKES!!!!

Living the Liturgical Year at Home... we've done a poor job of keeping up with most of the liturgical learning moments lately.  I had wanted to run a small group of Little Flowers for the summer but it just hasn't been possible.  Perhaps I can find some time to work out a mini version of it this week.

In the garden... lots of goodies are beginning to pop out of the blossoms.  We have tomatoes, watermelon, pumpkins (from the seeds of last years crop), butternut squash, eggplants, lettuce, onions, chilies...yum yum.

I am creating... reading lists, landscaping plans for a new sitting area, and an itinerary for a BIG trip that hubby and I are taking in September.

Around the house... the proof of decluttering and it's NOT pretty.  But my kitchen cupboards are happy.

I am reading... A Wind in the Door (Madeleine L'Engle's Time Quintet) and books on organizing, decorating for less and CHC's High School of Your Dreams.

I am pondering the words... from this post and Fr. S homily from this past Sunday.

Plans for this week...
  • a few doctor appointments for 3 kids
  • new washer and dryer are being delivered on Tuesday...thus the cleaning out of the garage.  No more Laundromats for me...Yippee.
  • talking to my London bro about our trip
  • music camp for two kids
  • our parish's Dinner-Dance gala on Saturday with some friends
Now I'm off to the garage!!!

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Let Freedom Ring!

Happy 4th 5th of July!


Were there sparklers being waved about by your little ones?

Hubby had a vision of how he wanted his 4th of July to be.  It involved a lot of work... I mean the kind of work that involved sweat, muscles, lots of patience and a beer or two to make it bearable ;-).

    It took two weeks of tree removal (along with the root ball-picture to come soon), shoveling, pulling out weeds, getting the rocks; then getting the ground to be leveled, for us to come to the stage of setting up the pool.  Oh yes, hubby got his our pool.  I'll have to write down the construction experience of this massive rubber square. 
 It was classic.

But SO SO SO worth it....

Just to see this face.

Once the pool was up, it was time for the clean up.  The Fourth of July was only 2 days away!
It wasn't pretty. 
Triple digit temperatures.
One set back or another.
 But Hubby and I did our best to get the backyard, in some what of a, ready condition for guests. 
 Then, the family was called. 
Bring your towels. 
 Bring your appetites.
And come on over!
Hubby was pooped out though LOL!
Look at my FIL!  Still doing well.  He came early so that he could leave b4 he got too tired.  He has to be careful with crowds you see.
Then the party animal came out of him
and since he was having so much fun with the grandkids...my FIL and MIL stayed until 10!

Mr. A and his wifey (carrying their son) came to celebrate too.
  Mr. A helped Hubby and I with that pool set up. 
I We are very grateful for that.

Kids enjoying the pool.

Families enjoying the fireworks

Family enjoying the show of the 'big' ones
while on the roof.


I wonder if this is safe to breath in...?

Deep in thought, memorized.

A full day of sun, fun and fireworks...

...it wasn't too much of a surprise to have had at least one child
end her day like this.

God bless you all!

Thursday, June 30, 2011

{pretty, happy, funny, real}


~ Capturing the context of contentment in everyday life ~

sidenote:
We are in full construction mode of our backyard, giving me almost NO time for picture taking.
I can hear my hubby yelling from across the yard, "Why do you have a camera in your hand instead of a shovel."  Of course it's with a smile and wink ;-)

But this is our week and it has been:

{pretty}

Rose has flowers in her hair through the day.  It's one of her favorite things.  Cute really beacuse she, along with Princess, is super-duper girly.
Feeling pretty is important, even in the midst of dirt and sweat.

{happy}

Max looks happy enough...right?

{real}

The reality of work. 
There use to be a lovely-very shady tree here.  It's gone now, to make room for the pool my hubby bought for himself the kids.  He says it's all for the kids but, secretly I know he dreams of jumping in straight from work.  He works in the sun ALL DAY LONG.  Usually having spent his day climbing 60+ feet of wood.  So I can imagine, and simplize, with the desire of jumping into a pool of cool/refreshing water.

Where's the {funny}?
Well there isn't a picture of it.  But Princess loves to wear her brother's Superman bath robe around the house.  Proclaiming herself
"Karate Girl"
She jumps out at us in the hallway yelling "Aaa-ha" and "Ka-ya" with an extended leg and karate chop to boot.  It's a pretty funny scene.

Pay a visit to Like Mother, Like Daughter and chime in to the
{pretty, happy, funny, real] moments of others too
:-)

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