O Lord and Master of my life! Take from me the spirit of sloth, faint-heartedness, lust of power, and idle talk. But give rather the spirit of chastity, humility, patience, and love to thy servant. Yea, O Lord and King! Grant me to see my own errors and not to judge my brother; For Thou art blessed unto ages of ages.



Amen



Wednesday, November 2, 2011

for you, on All Souls Day

Requiem æternam dona eis, Domine,
et lux perpetua luceat eis.
Te decet hymnus Deus, in Sion,
et tibi reddetur votum in Ierusalem.
Exaudi orationem meam;
ad te omnis caro veniet.
Requiem æternam dona eis, Domine,
et lux perpetua luceat eis.
~ ~
Mario Heredia
~ my father~

Grandpa Manuel & Grandma Pipi

Nana Concepcion  Beltran & my Tio Chendo 
~my grandmother & uncle~


Refugio Beltran
~my grandfather~

Rosendo Ortiz Jr.
~cousin~

Gilda Lopez
~cousin~

and for the many family members and friends
You are remembered
You are being prayed for

 "The fire shall try every man’s work of what sort it is. If any man’s work burn, he shall suffer loss; but he himself shall be saved, yet so as by fire."
1Cor. 3:13-15

Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord,
and let perpetual light shine upon them.
A hymn becomes you, O God, in Zion,
and to you shall a vow be repaid in Jerusalem.
Hear my prayer;to you shall all flesh come.
Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord,
and let perpetual light shine upon them.

Alfredo, Yvette, Julia F, Edward, Randy, grandpa Leo, Tia Consuelo, Diego and brothers, unnamed priest and religious, the forgotten souls

St. Theresa of Avila, Pray for Them!
St. Augustine, Pray for Them!
St. Monica, Pray for Them!
Mother Mary, dearest Mother, Pray for Them!

Lord God, Hear our Prayers!

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

On the feast All Saints

How shining and splendid are your gifts, O Lord
which you give us for our eternal well-being
Your glory shines radiantly in your saints, O God
In the honour and noble victory of the martyrs.
The white-robed company follow you,
bright with their abundant faith;
They scorned the wicked words of those with this world's power.
For you they sustained fierce beatings, chains, and torments,
they were drained by cruel punishments.
They bore their holy witness to you
who were grounded deep within their hearts;
they were sustained by patience and constancy.
Endowed with your everlasting grace,
may we rejoice forever
with the martyrs in our bright fatherland.
O Christ, in your goodness,
grant to us the gracious heavenly realms of eternal life.

To all that stop by and have visited with me and my family via this blog, have a wonderful and blessed All Saints Day!!!

All Ye Saints in Heaven, Pray for Us!

Friday, October 28, 2011

{Pretty, Happy, Funny, Real}

~ Capturing the context of contentment in everyday life ~
Every Thursday Friday, at Like Mother, Like Daughter!

 
{Pretty}

Our table set up for Little Flowers group this past week.

St. Faustina, Pray for Us <3

{Happy}

Sisterly love!

{Funny}

The story goes like this:
The family spends a few days on the mountain.
The father takes the children fishing.
Everyone is happy
excited
thrilled.
Especially the kid up in front.

Our story ends with,
little tiny fish
a very cold afternoon
and a well meaning gent
accidentally tossing Hubby's childhood fishing rod
into the lake.


{Real}

That's my boy!
Making his family dinner.
Flank steaks with a tomato and scallion relish.
(he wanted the nice 3/4 thick sized steaks)
I told him he was nuts, we eat on a budget honey.

It was delicious!
Thank you Max.

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

B is for birds, blueberries and St. Bernadette

Our Alphabet Path
Bb week

Cecilia (formally known as Princess) has officially unofficially started Kindergarten!
Yippee for the little learner, how ever unfazed as she is (she still thinks she should be in 'prettyschool')

So as with Rose, we are on our merry path to learning the alphabet under the influences and inspirations of Ms. Elizabeth, Ms. Jessica, Ms. Lacy and all the saints in heaven that kindly have provided me with much needed help.

Bb is for St. Bernadette


B is for books
(lots of them)

I gave Cecilia the chose of topics 'under Bb' that we could read about.  Can you tell what her topic was?

Angelo by David Macaulay
The Bird House by Cynthia Rylant
The Bird Alphabet Book by Jerry Pallotta
The Owls by Gail Gibbons
Gulls, Gulls, Gulls by Gail Gibbons
Soaring with the Wind by Gail Gibbons
Owl Moon by Jane Yolen
Make Way for Ducklings by Robert McCloskey
About Birds: A Guide for Children by Cathryn Sill
Owl Babies by Martin Waddell

We spent a lot of time on birds....a lot of time.

Bb is for Bird House

Science










Bb is for Blueberries & Butter
(in pie form)

yummy homemade butter
shake it...shake it....

Art & Crafts

Owls became very popular during the last few weeks.

On to Cc and
candles, candy, cookies, cakes....

St. Bernadette Pray for Us!

In remembrance of my father

How lucky I feel today to know the love of a father that was only given a short time with us.  We grew up knowing him and loving him through the stories of the many that adored him.  I've heard many times that he was filled with life.

A joker. 
A great friend. 
A lovely man.

His sudden death was a great lost to us.  For our mother who lost "the love of her life".  And us, his children who missed the opportunity to know him here on earth.  I still remember the hurt and cries that seemed to last forever.  It's a bit of my own innocence that was lost along with him.  I'm sure my siblings feel the same.

But I rejoice with the hope to be with him once more.  It's was makes me so grateful to our faith and in knowing the promises of Christ. 

I don't mourn my Papi with pure sadness.  There is joy in my memories.  And lots of little stories.  I remember hugs and kisses.  I can see his smiling face and the sparkles in his eyes.  Those are good to have.

Agimus tibi gratias, omnipotens Deus, pro universis beneficiis tuis, qui vivis et regnas in saecula saeculorum. Fidelium animae, per misericordiam Dei, requiescant in pace. Amen

(We give Thee thanks for all Thy benefits, O Almighty God, Who livest and reignest forever. And may the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen)


St. Teresa of Avila Pray for him,
St. Joseph Pray for him,
Lord Hear Our Prayers!

Sunday, October 16, 2011

Proceed with caution

This is going to be a straight out and honest run of the heart.  It's been quite a while that I've used this little blog to do what I'm about to do.  And I know as I type this that there is a 99% chance that I'll delete before I press 'post'.  But I really need to type-write-think out loud.

Have you ever had 'one' of those weekends where almost everything was off...or weird?  Not weird in the ha ha ha (funny) sense...but like you were in the middle of a very bad plot.  That was my weekend, in a nutshell.

I had a good dose of blessings, both in the ordinary and extraordinary kind.

Little people that I absolutely adore received a special sacrament.  Old friends were paid a visit and another new soul entered our Church through the sacrament of baptism.  My eldest daughter spent yet another day among the Carmelites and continues to grow towards becoming a wonderful faithful young lady.  We watched one of the most wonderful movies on the Mass that I have personally seen. 

It really was a great weekend, right?

But

Here goes...

There are things out there (I won't even name them) attacking.  Trying to distract our eyes from Him, our hearts even.  Plotting episodes to fill any available space with anger, doubt, envy, hurt...why do we fall into these traps?

There is a left over feeling of sadness from all this.  From the feelings that were hurt and the misunderstandings that occurred.  So sad that emotions got the best of some.  So unfortunate that in the midst of great joy we allow ourselves to get caught.  Do we even see this plot developing...do we see it coming at us like a out of control semi?

How to prepare for these battles? 

Staying closer to Him.  Especially during the hits.  Rely on prayer and those moments to be humbling quiet.  Allowing ourselves to hear Him.  To remember that it's NOT about us but about His will.  So if only I can remember to hold my tongue and open my ears more.  To stay away from the 'mere occasion of sin'.  That when a friend is hurt, or a loved one, and the mouth begins to run without thought...to RUN.  Then return to console and patiently listen.  Or just stay and listen (biting the tongue as a precaution).

Because it's not about me.

'If humble souls are contradicted, they remain calm; if they are calumniated, they suffer with patience; if they are little esteemed, neglected, or forgotten, they consider that their due; if they are weighed down with occupations, they perform them cheerfully.'

--St. Vincent de Paul

Saturday, October 15, 2011

A First Holy Communion Cookie

Yesterday my favorite set of triplets received the Blessed Sacrament for the very first time. 
And as a treat for their reception I made them these...


and these...


They were SO good!

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Dear Ms. Future Educator,

Princess took it upon herself to teach today

She lines up her class to make the long journey to school

They are an obedient class.  Lined up nicely and awaiting instructions
(kinda wish my students were as dutiful ;-))

 











Such a good teacher

It's off to lunch...all lined up in a row

Good job Princess!

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Kid Tales

While putting Princess into bed tonight, she has the bottom bunk bed, I accidently bumped her head against the frame.  Her response was:

"Oh Momma, it's okay I'm hard headed"

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Prepositions, subjects, helping verbs...Oh My

What is a mother to do?

A home educating mother at that...

when a child needs that extra intruction on

GRAMMAR

This mother used a bit of her own past to help.


Grammar Rock,

rocks!

Friday, September 23, 2011

The Greatest Miracle

Just popping in for quick post.

Have you seen this?

 
Spread the word
Fill the theater nearest you

 Be back soon with updates and several posts.

God bless!

Friday, August 26, 2011

{pretty, happy, funny,real}

...running a bit late on this one

~ Capturing the context of contentment in everyday life ~
Every Thursday Friday, at Like Mother, Like Daughter!

{pretty}


These beauties belong to a very dear baby.  Her lovely Mama was telling me how she just had washed her first cloths diapers and was hanging them on her clothes line.  I told her she should take a picture because I thought it sounded so cool.  Here is that shot.

Originally, I thought of putting this shot under real.  But the more I looked at it, the more I liked it under pretty.  Isn't lovely? 
Clean baby "diapers in the wind".
{happy}


Lucy turned 14!
Yep she was, and is, so happy.
{funny}


What is it with kids and bugs?
Rose found this HUGE Horntail in our tomato plant.  I think I yelled out because she came running and screaming, "momma, momma look what I found".  She just shoved this green thing in my face....they (the rest of my kids and that of my comarde's) all thought my reaction was funny...;-)

My comarde is a science teacher.  Thus, we all spent a good amount of time looking and touching the Horntail, naming it and finding another home for it other than on my tomatoes.  Personally I thought it should have been given to the hens. 
I was out voted.
{real}

I'm hardly in any of the photos with the kids.  Not because I'm shy or anything but it's mostly me behind the camera.  Hubby shot this from his seat at the beach and I think it's a great shot.  All of us, hanging out at the beach ,the Friday before school starts, on our Lucy's 14th birthday...

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

First Day of School ~

Today begins the first day of our 2011-2012 school year!
There are changes in grades, expectations, new beginnings leading to a special accomplishment for one & a the start of a formal education for another.

Dear Sweet Jesus,
Bless our endeavors today, especially that of my own words and actions; as we strive to learn, hope to inspire and do this all for your Glory.

Happy schooling everyone!

Now I'm off to.... teach something ;-)

Direct, we beg you, O Lord, our actions by your holy inspirations, and grant that we may carry them out with your gracious assistance, that every prayer and work of ours may begin always with you, and through you be happily ended.
Amen

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

To Charter or Not ;-)

A blogging friend posted a question regarding the use of charter schools for the home schooling family.  Since our family began this adventure of home educating ten years ago...yikes it's been ten years already?  Alrighty then, since we ventured onto this path I've tried and found endless methods, groups, funded (not funded) ways to 'homeschool' and the ways to pay for it. 

Charter schools were one of them.  I currently have 2 of my children enrolled in a state funded charter school for home schooling families.  We actually just pulled out our 9th grader from the school and going completely independent (filing under a R4 umbrella) for high school.  I'll answer the why later.  But we did keep the 5th and 2nd grader in the school. 

The charter school we belong to is well established in our state of California.  They serve a wide range of districts and offer an enticing list of product and service vendors.  Since they've been around for a number of years their 'virtual library' holds a great deal of materials.  This alone cuts down on the actual amount a family needs to take from their semester allowances.  A HUGE help!!!

Though there are great reasons to enroll in a state funded charter, there are challenges that can and do detour families.  Especially seasoned-veteran home educators.  So I'll list what I have found, what has worked and not worked for us, and why we pulled out Lucy from the school.  This is solely based on my personal experience and may or man not reflect what others might be experiencing.  Remember these are just my little 2 cents;-)

The benefits:
#1 on everyone list is the funds.
Charter schools provide an allowance for each enrolled student.  Depending on the state and/or school, the funds can be distributed by the school year, quarterly or like in our case by semester.  The amount can vary and is subjected to state budget cuts.  Every year we hear the same word of caution regarding our funding.  "This could be cut next semester so spend wisely", I've yet to see a lowered amount in our funds.  In fact our school has a very generous allowance.  This can pose challenges though as you'll read later on.

Fact is there is NO WAY our family could have afforded many of the curriculum and services the funding has provided for!  NO WAY!  The funds provided are to be used for educational services and materials. This includes:
tutoring
curriculum (both consumable and non, prepackaged or a single text)
dance lessons
music lessons
sports (fencing, karate, gymnastics)
outside educational classes (science, math, reading and co-op classes like this one)
computers
printers
office supplies (ink, pencils, art supplies)
instruments
school equipment (desks or white boards)
* important note here: all non consumable products like microscopes, computers and curriculum is bought by the parent/teacher but is ultimately property of the school.  Thus, once the item(s) is used and completed or the family dis enrolls; all those items must be returned to the charter.  At least that is the case with ours.

It's a huge list.  And if your child wants to try their hand in something that isn't on the vendor list, the parent then simple invites that vendor to join the list.  This would involve some paperwork on their part, showing proof of insurance and licenses are an example.

Our family could not have afforded the piano, fencing, guitar, private tutoring and ballet for our 4 kids.  So for this we are so very grateful to the school!

#2
Lending library
From what I've seen, most charter schools have some form of a library system.  Many of the items come from families who have returned unused curriculum, instruments and such.  The school also uses all unused IF funds to purchase hot items like math curriculums.  This is where I've saved tons of our IFs (instructional funding) and why I've been able to allocate those funds to serve our family better.  Our charter school has been around a while so their library is well stocked.  I use it for my math books; Saxon, Singapore, Teaching Textbooks, Chalk Dust...you name it and it's probably at the library waiting to be checked out.  I have been able to check out a great microscope for several months, a Rosetta Stone Spanish program for the entire year, lots of supplemental readings.  Again the list is long but this can range from charter to charter.  It's definitely a plus though for families on a budget. 

Important to note too.  If, like in math, you hear of a new product, like when Teaching Textbooks first became popular, the school library provided me with a hands on look of the product.  I'm a touch and feel kind of buyer.  I like to see the book open it and really LOOK at it to see if it fits our family, or a particular child.  This is a definate plus for the library of a charter.

#3
The ES
Our Educational Specialists is fabulous. She is a veteran home educator herself and I've been able to use her skills and experience to help instructing Max.  She's become a close friend and (don't tell) but we spend most of our meetings chatting. 

The Educational Specialists (ES) role is to support the parent.  This can vary with charters as well though.  Our charter has a very strict policy for the ES.  Per their policy the ES oversees what is being taught and how the child is moving along.  We meet about every 20 days, here at our home, where the ES is supposed to request to see all the work completed for that period of time and discuss any issues or concerns.  For me, this is both a positive and negative element to working with a charter.  The ES is supposed to make sure the learning is getting done and being completed at a satisfactory level.  We turn in a sample of work from each major subject area: Math, Science, Language Arts etc.  About 7 pages is what is comes out to.  These samples go into that child's portfolio at the main office. 

Remember this is a state funded charter.  So they have to answer to the state, which includes yearly audits at their main office.  So yes, they can be strict.  An ES can be straight by the book or can get to know their families and know by the character and examples of the work that yes indeed there is lots of learning happening.

The above 3 areas and the fact the school is accredited, plan field trips, organize activities like spelling bees, hold transcripts make it a great choice for families.  Especially new families to home schooling.

But perhaps you've already seen a glimpse of the concerns one may have.  Especially when you've been at this for a while.

My Concerns:
#1
The Funding
How can funding be a positive and a concern?  Have you ever been giving about $1000 (give or take $100 or 2) for each child to use in one school year?  We are talking about $2-3,000.00 for the year in school related stuff

Our charter has a very generous allowance...we are truly blessed here.  But there are only so many outside classes & activities you can have a child in.  Especially when you have more than one child and their interests can range dramatically.  We don't learn the best being in a car for half a day twice or more a week.  It just disrupts our family time too much.

And if you utilize the lending library, the hope then is to have the funds for those activities and use less on actual curriculum.  We home schoolers are known for being curriculum junkies.  Buying that cool chemistry kit in the very hope to using it at some point...and never do because it's somewhere in the closet behind that other rock collection kit from last semester.  Sound familiar?

Well that was the case in my home until I had a revelation of sorts.  My children learned best when the subject matter was kept simple and organized.  If something interested them, being able to see and USE the items they needed quickly eliminated the frustration of searching and becoming side tracked.  I got rid of tons of 'stuff' and now give back all my unused IF to the school.  They in turn purchase items that future families can use for the library and this would include mine.  I made a promise to myself, and to my Hubbie, not to be a home school hoarder.  Wish me luck :-)

#2
State Testing
I personally do not put any importance to these test.  I don't see the benefits whether in a public school setting or in a home schooled setting.  But again, charters are funded by the state and are mandated to report the 'progress' of their students.  I'll leave it at that.

#3
Those Learning Record meetings
Without trying to step on any toes here, this is what I see and struggle with the most.  I teach in accordance to how my children learn, take their interest into account and do not follow state standards; at least not in detail.  I also have quite a few (well more than a few) items that come from a very Catholic perspective.  Um, Catholic textbooks, materials and state funded schools do not play nice together in my state.  So though I've been able to use what I want, I've had to be very creative in what I can show our ES and what can go into their portfolio for the school.  This has been the hardest part of being a part of a charter.  I'm fortunate in that our ES is a Christan and we share the same views on things.  So she works with me.  God bless her!

There is some logging down of the kid's daily learning activity.  A single page and easily filled out.  This year the charter has changed those learning record meetings to be more of a planning meeting.  So instead of the ES noting what has been completed, she'll be going over what the parent/teacher has planned to go over for the following 20 days or so.  We'll see how this all develops.  Personally at the point of where I am in teaching my children & the use of funds vs these meetings and overseeing by the state is no longer a balance.  We are slowly leaving the charter behind and hope in God that He'll provide what is needed.  I'm sure it'll all work out.

So that's it.  I absolutely feel that charters are a needed source of support for home schooling families.    It's an important tool, especially for those on a budget or the newbies ;-).  We need plenty of options in home schooling.  In an age where parents are loosing more of our rights to teach and instill morals into our children; where we do not have a say in the public sector of what is taught.  Speaking directly about our public school system in California.  Did you see Gov. Brown's recent signing of this bill, just as one horrible example.  So anything that gives families better choices is a good thing in my book.

Yep, we are slowly leaving the charter school as a family and going completely independent for Lucy.  There was no way I could have kept Lucy in the charter for high school.  Their requirements are too boxed in and inflexible for the growing mind of a teenager.  She needs to have high school be a period of guided exploration.  So we are on our own with her and Princess.  Kindergarten isn't mandatory and she'll be loving the Alphabet Path from Elizabeth's suggestions and Jessica's inspirations.

I hope this has helped some know a bit from the inside of a charter.  Again these are just my own observations and I'm sure others will differ.  Either way, I've offered my little tid bits with love.

God bless which ever way you opt to teach! 

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Learning Year beginnings :: Part I

The new learning year is upon on, yet again!  How does that happen?  One minute I'm finishing up the folders, gathering grades, cleaning out the books, looking forward to camping, fun, and relaxation then...
BAM
it's
home school conferences
daily scans through CathSwap,
new files,
new books,
anticipated visits from the brown truck,
new lessons being planned;
it's
September
and
the first day of school is just around the corner....
again!

But I love it.
I love new notebooks and the ideas of a fresh start.

This year I have 4 kiddos getting into the 'learning' thing.
A freshman in high school
(did you hear me gulp?)
A 5th grader
A 2nd grader
and the
kindergartner

It's a lovely year planned for us
(we hope)
yet we expect the unexpected, the forks in the road, the hills and mountains that will undoubtedly need to be climbed.

And here it is.
Our 2011-2012 year at a glance.

Did I mention there is a 9th grader lurking in my house?  I've been reading and searching the many ways I can make high school work for Lucy. From the organized and packaged plans of Seton or MODG, CHC's version of a High School of Your Dreams, running with a state run program or the on your own paths of the many unschoolers; the list is endless. 
But, after weeks of this, our plan developed. It's a mix bag of stuff really.  A bit from Seton, tips from 4real learning forums, points from CHC's high school and Charlotte Mason's philosophy of what learning should look like.

Anyhow, Lucy took full part in this too. Adding her input and suggestions for readings.  She wants to consider her options after high school and her terms plans will reflect that.  She also has a love for the viola and is currently playing and mastering the instrument with an orchestra.  Thus, she added this 'extra focus' in her planning. 

She is going to be one busy girl.
But isn't this what high school should be like?  A period of time to test the waters.  Where will her interest finally lead her too?  Only God knows, and I bet He's nudging her bit by bit here.


~ For Lucy:: The Beginning ~

Grammar: 

Winston Grammar (1 year)
Readings from Eats, Shoots & Leaves

Copy work:

Calligraphy
Poetry selections

Composition:

Jensen's Format Writing
Entries into her own journal
Credit for projects she has set up for journalism

Literature (for the year):

The Rose Round by Merioil Trevor
To Kill a Mockingbird

Shakespeare Studies:

I. Romeo & Juliet
II. Gentleman of Vienna
III. Julius Cesar

Math

Algebra I
(2 days a week class taken outside of the home for this one)
Assorted reading: Algebra Unplugged by Jim Loats.  This looks interesting so we'll see how it goes. 

History

RC History Vol 2
Text: Land to the Nations

Geography

loosely following MODG syllabus for 9th grade

Science

Assorted readings: 

Journalism

I.  Our Community report

Fine Arts & Logic

Viola with Kadima Conservatory

Art:: Home School in the wood's Studying the greats
I. Iconography, Monet, Raphael, Renoir

Music Study:: The Great Composers
I. Georgian Chants, Guido of Arezzo, Hildegard of Bingen

Logic::

Foreign Language

Rosetta Stone's Spanish level 1
practice and speaking with me

Religion

- The Sacrament of Confirmation
(either CHC's or Seton's...haven't decided yet)
- Baltimore Catechism No. 3
- weekly formation classes with our parish followed by benediction
- Bi-weekly CAST meetings
(a friend host these apologetics classes for the youth of our community...very well done)
I. Book of Virtues
II. How to Become a Saint

At a glance this looks like a lot.  But Lucy is a strong reader and can handle this load.  Keeping that in mind, this is set up to fit her and the year at a glance we hope to complete.

I don't know how to link to my pdf file....something else to learn.

5th grade is next

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